he told my friend in a man to man chat that he wanted to kiss me... soon...but here's the problem...I've never kissed anyone b4 and neither has he. I just don't want to mess up...not that he would be able to tell but still...any advice?
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First off, congratulations on going to get your first kiss! It's a special moment, so naturally you'd feel nervous and anxious.
First things first: remain calm. Breathe slowly through your nose, in and out (which is also, of course, a must during kissing). Relax your shoulders.
Kissing (even before kissing) is like a dance -- the dance of sending nonverbal messages through your eyes. I think there's a "triangle" of where your gaze could follow... one eye to the other eye...to the mouth... back to the first eye, etc. Not too quickly, though.
When he goes in for the kiss, close your eyes. Like a dance, he'll probably lead, so you'll follow (you can mimic what he does). Really, the only advice to kissing is: Clear your mind. Relax. Savor the moment. And most of all, have fun!
Good luck :)2