OK so I recently started this job and since the interview I noticed this guy employee right away and that he was also flirting with me. he also remembered me weeks later when I officially started. I'm normally a shy person but he pursued and I flirted back. The first time we hung out outside of work we slept together. yes, I know that is slutty to do, and I'm normally very picky about who I sleep with, but there was mad attraction between us. Note: it was probably the best sex I have ever had (and he seemed to thoroughly enjoy it). and the weird thing is that even in a relationship the first time kinda always sucks, but we were really comfortable with each other, into the same sex things, and acted like a couple. Now, I wasn't looking for a relationship but after we did it and got dressed we were still flirting but he told me he wasn't looking for a girlfriend, which I agreed. Anyways we ending up cuddling for a bit, and still flirting, which led to hooking up again. I don't know the whole night was just really cute and different than what I am used to. After a while I asked him to take me home and he did and he kissed me goodbye. I don't know him that well, but it's been a couple of days and I've gotten nothing. I don't work with him till the end of the week so I don't know what it would be like to see him, but after this I realized I kinda want to get to know him better. I just want to know like what he's thinking. He hasn't texted, or called etc. Did he get what he wanted from me and now is done with me?
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There's no reason you can't be friends with a f*** buddy outside of the bedroom. like goflipaburger said don't get emotional about it, just see if you can chat with him from time to time, don't even being up the fact that you slept together and whether or not either of you thought or wanted it to mean something.
If things develop let them develop organically, if they don't move on. If he doesn't want to be friends with you now, possibly he just saw you as the new girl in the office and wanted the conquest, but I hope that's not the case!0