I'm 21 and I really like this girl she's 21 also..but how often should I text or talk to her? I don't wanna seem desperate but I do like her!
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It depends on how much she likes you. For me, when I first started dating my boyfriend, I wanted him to text me all the time. But, with this guy before him, who I just was friends with, he liked me, and texted me all the time, and I was like...wtf? It actually ran me off...because I was thinking something must be wrong with this dude if all he does is text me. And, why does he like me so much? ? ? I know, that is harsh...but, he texted me like 24/7 like ALL the time. literally. He wouldn't take an hour break. and if he did, that was it..an hour break. If my boyfriend was like that..he would probably have run me off too...but, that is like extreme to me..all that texting! I know that you think of that person all the time, and you want to let them know it but, it was too much. I would say, that once or twice throughout the day is good..and more at night. But, if she is having a conversation with you, don't just stop texting her. I am saying, start up a text once or twice a day..and then once or twice in the evening. Something like that. Possibly talk to her on the phone at night? To talk about your day and etc..?0