I don't know what it is about dating, but when I'm doing it I ALWAYS feel like I'm walking a thin line...that at any time she'll get up and walk away if I'm not always interesting.
not sure how that mentality developed, but am I just imagining it or do girls nowadays need someone who's constantly entertaining them in some way?
Most Helpful Girl
All I can say is that you need to step away from this mentality. For me, when I was dating I would look at the date as an opportunity to have fun even though many times the dates were painfully not fun. If I ever felt like I needed to entertain the guy or be one way or another with him, that is a buzz kill for both of us. Even if you think it doesn't show, it does come out in your actions and it is artificial and just not sexy.
If you focus instead on having fun, well for one it will be easier to spot the gal you are just not hitting it off with and not call her for another date. You also will be more genuinely you and you will attract the right girl, the one who likes who you are. Obviously we all have a certain level of extra courtesy and our best manners on the first date through many more dates, and that is fine, but feeling like we are a performing animal is not where it is at. Good luck!0