What are the do's and dont's when seeing/dating a guy at the beginning?
About calling / texting ?
About sex (just teasing..kissing..oral ? )
Should the girl go for it ?
I am looking for undeclared rules, like the 3 day rule or things like that, as I am new in the dating scene and not sure how to act.
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communication: 3 day rule is mainly for guys, feel free to text him and say hello.
don't leave him hanging, if you're busy or going to sleep, say so.
don't be obsessive. take a little time in between texts/phone calls
sex: don't give it up right away, as in like the first month of dating. the quicker you are into bed,
the more we believe it was easier for someone else as well. personally, when I really like the girl
I don't mind the wait at all
dress modestly, we wanna see your boobs of course, but we don't want them on display
for everyone else.
should you go for it?
i don't know what you mean, if this means initiate contact, sure go ahead. but should you lay yourself out there and be completely vulnerable? no...definitely not. give us just enough attention/flirtation to keep us interested and chasing but don't just lay it all out there, it's an instant game kill for us.
hope this helps.0