Well, how do I start? Ive been single for almost 2 years. I hadn't had any type of contact with men, not even kissing! I started working in a company and from the very beginning I spotted some cute guys and I started observing them. They are three guys, all with qualities I really like.
One day I bumped into one of them when I was on my way home. He didn't know where I lived, so I invited him over. He went in and then we started kissing and also tried to have sex with me, I said no, because I'm a virgin and I don't wanna lose it with just anyone. I wanna make sure I find the right guy.
Also there was a problem. He told me afterwards that he didn't want any commitment for now, but he really liked me.A few days later he asked me out.I told him I would think about it after what he did.
Four days after, the second guy surprisingly called me. He said he was in town and that he wanted to come over to watch a movie he rented.We did so and in the middle of the movie we kissed.He tried to have sex with me, but I didn't proceed because I'm still a virgin, and I don't just want to loose it with anyone. He got upset and I asked him to leave.He sent me flowers the other day and asked me to give him a second chance.
The third guy (which I like the most) has a girlfriend.
He told me he likes me a lot yesterday, and if I accept to be his girlfriend, he will break up with her and be with me.He wrote me a poem and also sent me flowers at work (Orchids) which are my favorite.
I really don't know what to do.I haven't dated in a long time, but these situations are very difficult to decide on.I like all three, but I don't know who to give a chance to be part of my life.They are all handsome and interesting men.
In a way it has reanimated me to feel better about myself, by the fact that I'm feeling wanted again, not just by one man, but 3!!!
Can you guys hep me make a decision?
Which do I pick?
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Number 1, congratulations for not giving it to the first and second guy. That takes a lot of self control.
Also, lucky you because once they had conquered you, I doubt it that they would stick around to be part of your life, as you would like them to be.
Number 2. When a guy says he doesn't want commitment but he really likes you, that means he wants no commitment, but he would really like to do you.
Number 3. Looks like to me guy 2 doesn't really want to be part of your life either, but he seems quite eager to get a chance to explore your inner workings...and it ain't your mental inner workings, let me tell you that.
Number 4. Guy number 3 who would break up with his girlfriend---if you were his girlfriend, and another girl came along, is there anything that guarantees you that he won't do the same to you? geeez!
Number 5. If all these 3 handsome men want you, I'm sure plenty others want you too.
It doesn't seem any of these 3 guys are there for the long term, however you want to define long term. Instead it sounds like they are the hit it, quit it, type of guys. So yea, any of these won't do you any good, you unless you want good sex maybe... :)5