Basically I have been talking to this new guy for about a month. Nothing too serious but we do talk on the phone regularly and contact each other the same amount. He got out of a year relationship about five months ago. He broke up with his girlfriend because he wanted to be single... and casually dated many girls.. now he says he is ready to be in a relationship/ wants one.. he has not talked to the ex since. would this be considered a rebound relationship if I were to pursue him any further?
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No, I don't believe it's a rebound.
His ex was too much drama for him, if I would guess so. So he wanted to be free from the hardship. Since HE was the one who broke up with her, there's less attachment on his end since he's the one who expected the breakup and called the shot in ending it. The person who gets dumped is the one who has more emotional drama and baggage in wanting the ex back. It usually happens that way.
Since he hasn't talked to the ex since then, it's a sure bet that he's moved on. Which is GOOD NEWS. So many girls end up dating idiotic guys who still talk to their Exes like they're friends.
Exes should NOT be friends, because honestly, one person wants the other back. Even if they don't admit it. The feelings lurk.0