Just like the question says.
I'm 20 and the guy I'm interested in is 30 and single for sure.
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i would date them if I liked them but only after am 25.
At 20 , you're still young and are just starting to have "life changing experences" ..That guy may be thinking about marriage and kids but you may not be in that position yet .At 20 , you're most likely still in school and have a "college job" ..that guy most likely has a decent job/career. I personally wouldn't want to go into a relationship feeling inferior ( am not saying that you feel that way). You may feel kind of uneasy if he provides everything for you since your in college. His friends and family may not take you seriously ( they most likely will consider you a kid) . And most likely you will be uncomfortable around them.
It's different if one is above 25 ..since most likely by then you have a decent job/career , more mature ..can support a family in case you two decide to have kids , more independent (no longer depend on parents or relatives for financial support), are done with school etc0