So long story short things got really complicated between me and one of my best guy friends.
So first he found out I don't have the best reputation. I had no idea he knew about my reputation because he went to a different school an hour away. I finally got the guts to tell him I really liked him. he didn't feel the same. the problem I am having is he doesn't want to go to college a virgin and he knows I could help with that.
I don't just sleep with who ever, like I only do that when I have been with a guy for a while. I just feel so used, he has been playing with my emotions to get what he wants. I miss having him as a friend but I am just so mad at him. should I forgive him and move on?
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your reputation? what reputation...how is your reputation bad when you are sitting here telling all of us that you only sleep with guys youve been with for a while...
in my book that's a good reputation...
but also I don't judge people from what I hear, I let my own opinions and personal expierences determine someones reputation...i hate people that base things on what they've "heard"...shame on them
anyways, move on - he's going to college, if you want to take his v-card then ask him if he wants it to be taken by you - I mean you already told him you liked him and he didn't feel the same, so...whats the problem with getting denied another time?
im not sure he's so convinced he doesn't "like" you...maybe he's unsure - id also suggest taking time away from him, let him see what its like to miss you and then maybe, just maybe he'll realize he does like you and can be a bigger MAN and not listen to what others talk about you
afterall your "reputation" is how people portray you, your personality is who you are...if people want to be immature and assume everything they hear is correct about a person then screw them (no not literally) but seriously, people need to make their own opinions and stop listening to everyone else0