Trying to keep it short, as a kid I was very curious sexually and did my share of experimenting and curiosity, which I hate myself for. For whatever reason I think I remember exposing myself to (2) young cousins (too young to remember it happening) when I was about 14. My parents would leave the doors open when changing and going to the bathroom, perhaps lending to my confusion, but I'm much older now and obviously I think its detestable and keep my business for my partner and myself. I'm not an exhibitionist at all, but I obsess about these things, and although I'm not like that at all now, it gives me crazy anxiety. What are your thoughts? Any help is appreciated.
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Honestly, if I knew that about your past, I would not date you becuase I would not want to have chidlren with you.
Regardless of your orientation, though, if you obsess about it, then yes, it matters, because it is affecting who you currently are. You have to let go and forgive yourself for these things. Call those cousins if you must. Everyone does stupid things when they're young. You have to live in the present.0
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