Girls- when you give a guy your number, would you rather he call you or text you first? Also would the amount of time you and the guy already spent around each other/talking in person influence this? Also how long do you generally want to text/call each other before becoming interested in doing something together?
My reason for asking is because this girl who I've been in class with and talked to for months gave me her number, so I called to make plans, but she didn't answer or respond at all, and I'm just wondering if maybe this was coming on too strong?
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Well if me and this so called guy had a really like fun time together with a lot of talking or uhm even action, then a call would be pretty nice actually. If we only quickly met and talked for a brief period, then a text would be better. So the amount of time spent talking to each other would influence to some extent. I don't generally see that there should be a specific time to wait to organize something. If it's for the next day, cool, if it's for the next weekend, cool. So making plans to do something together is up to the person who wants to do something.
Part 2: How many times did you try and when? It could be that she was busy.0