I am normally very good with "the dating game" and I make myself very busy and very desirable and a bit of a mystery. But once I get the girl and get into a relationship I seem to let that go and become needy like a woman lol. I have been dating my girlfriend for 2 months. She has a very shy, laid back personality and is a very fun chill woman. When we first met like all relationships we texted/called almost all day and night. Now that we have been dating for a few months It seems that she is more comfortable and doesn't text/call me as much as the start. I have been known to over think things WAY TO MUCH! I basically want to know if I should still play those small dating games, since I am the man in the relationship I don't want to be the one texting and calling her every time, and be up her ass like I am being. She has become more laid back with responding and texting while I am still at full speed. Don't get me wrong she texts me, and calls like a regular healthy relationship should contact each other but I get all crazy when I reach out to message her and she doesn't respond for a few hours..How can I flip it back were she is doing most of the reaching out? Also am I just being a big woman!? ha ha If I don't hear from her for a few hours I always over think things, but 9/10 she is just busy doing something then again this is 2011...how hard is it to send a simple text saying "hey hun I'm busy talk later"
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@become needy like a woman
it impossible for you to ask your question without demeaning women? is there a reason you have to try to undermine women to get a point across about yourself?
I do not understand why people can't you just say what you have to say without turning everything into a gender issue. what about pure moral integrity regardless of genitalia?
how does this protect you.0