To be frank, most of the reasons that guys say "girls play games" is because females seem to be A LOT less direct than males, as if they're afraid of taking a definitive position on a subject for whatever reason. This type of female in ? will give an answer that is "wishy-washy", thus their answer denotes nothing in regards to the ? asked.
I'm certain that whoever reads this knows where I'm somewhat coming from.
I'm asking the members on GaG...why do you think these types of females behave this way? Please keep it clean; no flaming & no overly-offensive comments, please. :)
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Lots of the advice that women get is conflicting. We get advice on going and getting the guy, however, we get so much back that tells us to basically not "scare the guy off."
Some girls are raised to be people pleasers and to be lady like.
The rest are raised to be themselves, and as we look through how to get a mate and keep them, the advice is the same- "do this, don't do this if you don't want to scare them off." It tends to end up being - don't nag, don't bug them, don't call to soon, don't say the wrong thing, don't complain too much, and over and over. After a while, you start to feel like your best bet is to just not say anything at all.1