me and my boyfriend have been together for about 6 months. we love each other, he's the perfect guy for me. but I was browsing around on his computer, and saw that he was on a dating profile website. he started it before he met me (which is fine), but I noticed a month ago he messaged a couple ugly girls but all he asked them was how they were. WHY did he do that though? should I be mad? or is this nothing? I read the messages that he sent to some other girls a while ago, and they're all pretty innocent. nothing dirty, just small talk... but it still is weird to me.
i noticed he's rarely on it... the last time he messaged anyone was a month ago so it's not like he's on it daily checking his messages... but I'm just curious to as why he's still using it?
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I can certainly see why you are upset. I would be too. I don't think it matters "why" he is still on it, it is just "that" he is on it. Right? Because when you discuss it with him, and you need to because this is going to eat you alive, he is going to tell you it nothing & not to be worried. What else can he say?
I am sure he is going to tell you, & remember this, that he is "checking on friends that he made."
Now you can accept this & move on, or you can accept this & ask him to cancel this account and move on.
I would not advice telling him to do it. It should be his choice. Be ready to explain checking his computer.