I've been dating a guy for almost 3 months. At one point he had told me to stop by if I was ever bored, but I never did until last night. I had felt like he was pulling away (didn't make plans with me for this past weekend and didn't call/text while I way away on a trip). I hadn't seen him for about a week, so I stopped by unannounced last night. We ended up having sex and and I stayed the night. He told me he would call me later today. He didn't call all day but then at about 7:30 he sent a text. It said "Taken off camping the rest of the week, sorry...Have a good week and weekend..." I feel sick to my stomach that he sent this the day after we had sex (it wasn't the 1st time we had sex...3rd I think) I called him right away when I got the text, but he didn't answer. About 30 minutes later I sent him a text that said "Uh oh. That kinda sounds like you don't want to see each other anymore? Did I freak you out by stopping over last night? I felt all day like I shouldn't have done that. Sorry. I was just having fun :) Anyway, will you let me know so I'm not hanging? Don't worry...if it's bad news I can take it." Did I just screw up by sending that?
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All he said was he was going on a camping trip. WTF? The man can't go on a trip? He didn't say he wanted to stop seeing you. That makes you seem WAY psycho. Chill out. Yeah he probably thinks you're crazy now. I mean he says he's going camping and you think that means he doesn't want to see you anymore?...where's the logic in that?...wow.1
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