I've known this boy for about 5 years and we talk on MSN all the time and text each other. We get on really well. I know he isn't a weirdo or anything because he went to school with some of my friends and I've met up with him at a house party once. I asked him straight out last night if he likes me, does he just want to sleep with me or does he just want to me friends. He said he wants to sleep with me. Surely he can't just want that when we flirt all the time and get along so well? I'm really confused! Why doesn't he want a relationship with me? Am I not good enough?
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Well I'm not that surprised.
You have a internet fling!?!
If you want more, you have to be more.
It will be harder to just hang out with him, now that you have asked that question, but you should hangout with him. Give him a reason to always want you around.
There is nothing like true presence. Over the internet doesn't give off the romantic phase of attraction, that you normally get when hanging out.
A relationship can't be decided upon conversations over the internet.
You need to develop more with him.
You have the attraction going for you, I mean he wants sex from you, but what guy doesn't right.
The attraction though, along with the fact that he at least likes to talk to you over the net, should tell you that you have a shot at being together.
So, Good Luck!
A Loving Black Man1