do guys follow the "bros before hoes" or do you actually listen to your heart? :) :)
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Basically no one actually follows that rule strictly, and few follow it with any seriousness at all. Anyone who does follow it strictly is crazy, an asshole, or both. (Although, I have to admit, a lot of guys out there are assholes, and there are plenty of crazy/totally irrational people of both sexes too).
Essentially, anyone with any real brains knows that a person cannot really choose a relationship over a friend, or vice versa, because if a person does make such a choice, then that person has neither a real relationship nor is that person any kind of real friend.
Granted, choices have to be made in life at some point, but one does not make them based on such values. That would be a false dilemma, and therefore a logical fallacy. There is always at least a third variable, a third reason, a third factor in making a decision.1