I like having guy friends but they always end up being interested in me. Is it mean to continue talking to them and hanging out with them when they like me and I don't like them? I'm not trying to lead them on I just want to have a normal friendship with a guy without them getting all starry eyed and weird on me. Why can't guys just be friends?
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I get what your saying, I have several male friends, however when we met I knew that they were interested and I was not. When they made advances I made it clear that I wanted to be only friends. Some no longer hung out, others continued to hang out. The ones that continued to hang out and accepted that we would only be friends are still some of my best friends to this day. I figure that the ones that no longer wanted to be friends because I was not interested were only wanting one thing any way and were only friendly when they thought they were going to get some. Men are going to be attracted to you but if they can't accept that you only want to be friends then they are not worth your time. If they really do like you for you then they will accept where you stand and continue to be your friend because they would rather be your friend than lose you altogether. Tell them where you stand and if they don't like it it was really not a loss because they were never really your friend. I know people are different but this was my experience.0