My boyfriend and I work in the same place, so we have a lot of mutual friends. Sometimes we do big get togethers with a whole group, which both my boyfriend and I attend, and it's fun.
However, there are times I want to hang out with some of these people without my boyfriend around. I would never hang out with the whole group and exclude him, but he gets upset if I hang out with any of them without him, because they're "his friends too".
For example, I was out shopping and having lunch with two girls from work when my boyfriend texted and asked what I was up to. I told him, then put my phone away. Imagine my surprise when he showed up at the restaurant a half hour later asking to spend the whole day with us.
My boyfriend goes out with guys from work (and even some of the girls) without me, so why can't I do the same?
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I can see why he's upset with you, you seem like an awful person1