did you break up with your ex?
or did your ex end it with you?
was it mutual?
and how do you feel now?
are you glad it ended or do you miss your ex still?
when I broke up with my ex, it was only me at first, then it became a mutual thing, now she's over me for the most part and I'm not sure I'm over her enough to date another girl haha, talk about irony.
- I broke up with my exVote A
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I liked my ex since I was 16.. he was always so nice to me back then. Suddenly he "grew up" and changed.. but he started to like me back, at least I thought. He kept lying to me over and over.. and every time he would swear that he was telling me the truth right then and there. Why did I stay? I don't know.. I just always forgave him immediately because I liked him and I always thought I would be the girl to make him trust people and feel better about things. He chased me around for a month after I turned him down because I didn't want to be hurt again. I finally caved and we went out again last year.. It's been fights ever since. Nothing I do is good enough, even though I changed myself completely to try to make him happy. He always wanted it his way or we were over.. He broke up with me several times for not giving him what he wanted. But I always managed to tell him how much I did care and keep him with me. Last month (I am 22 now), he broke up with me again... We quit talking.. or so I thought. One week later he calls me up to apologize that "I must know something". He said karma finally caught up to him and that his girlfriend (I did NOT know about --yet I had a gut feeling, which he always denied) of 4 years dumped him for another guy she started liking while dating him. He apologized and started talking about how hurt HE was while telling me.. the girl he used. I tried to comfort him even though I was on the verge of crying. He still uses/used me after.. as the "use to get over his ex" friend. ..I don't know why I always forgive him, but I've decided I have had enough.. I can't take it any longer. He hurts me and doesn't even care. I just hope I can be strong when he texts me again, enough to ignore him for the rest of my life.1