My friends and other classmates pick on this (cute) new boy. He has trouble making friends and he is very shy so that makes him a easy target.
Almost everyone in my grade say he's a loser. The girls once put a note with (she knows that he has a crush on her) my friend's name that she like him (trust me she doesn't). When he confronted her about she acted like didn't know what he was on about. I thought it was so uncool.
As for the boys push him in anything hard that will give him a blooding nose.
I want to stand up to for him but I'm afraid that I might got bullied to. It is painful to watch him get beat up and I think should help him but how?
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Honestly, I think the best you could do for him is to tell an adult about what's going on. I don't know anything about his family, hopefully he has one that wouldn't stand by and allow this to happen. Most schools have a zero tolerance policy for bullying. They can even involve the police if it is severe enough. Though that may seem extreme, being constantly bullied by a "pack" is extreme as well.
I think it's absolutely commendable that you would want to stand up for him. But what can you do, by yourself? Ideally everyone would see the errors of their way, but realistically - you are right, you would become a victim of bullying yourself. Be his friend and tell someone who can really do something about it.
Being a victim of bullying, especially from a group, causes indescribable mental anguish. It can lead to long term emotional and mental problems. Stuff like that never leaves you, he needs help - more help than you can give him. My heart goes out to him, the poor baby.
I warms my heart to know that you want to help. Right now you can be his friend, no more than that is needed. Show him that you will be there for him, despite the "popular opinion" of him. You don't have to take on the masses, just be the friend he so terribly needs right now. Tell a counselor or a teacher - let them handle it. If they are of no help, convince him to tell his parents. He needs more help than you are capable of right now.0