Your long-term partner refused to let you kiss her... for months together. Girls, how would you interpret it?
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I think your partner may be under some stress. Having children and all the changes that this brings to life can be stressful and then you don't feel able to do/or feel like you want to do things like kiss or have sex. I don't have children but I have seen the same behavior in family members and other women, during the first couple of years of having children. If I were in your position I would speak to my own doctor or a counsellor about your partners behavior because it is affecting you. I don't think there is a way or interpreting her behavior and if it is stress your partner may not even be able to say why she is having like this if you were to ask her. Stress causes all sorts of chemical and hormonal imbalances in a persons body and this affects both their physical behavior and their mental behavior .1