m= me, h=him
m=i moved back to Florida
h= ey thank god I missed yuh ;)
m= yeah? (:
h=oh yuh we gonna chill when I get back? :)
m=yeah we can hang out (:
h= ight sounds good
m= what do you want to do?
h= what you think;)
m= well I think we need to talk first for a lot of reasons
h= oh **** okay lets talk lol
m= okay I don't know how you feel or anything but when we first started hanging out I wasn't like emotionally avaliable and now its not just about hanging out for me
h= I don't get it lol
m= I have feelings for you, do you?
h= do you really lol I do but I mean I don't really want a relationship :/ but I do like you
m= yeah. I don't really want one either, but it feels weird just hooking up when I don't know what we are
h= how about this we hook up but we're friends and we won't talk or hook up with anyone else so that'll be good :))
m= isn't that friends with benefits?
h= I don't know but I do like you so I don't know I love doin what we did
m= I think we should try to date and if it doesn't work, we can just go back
h=but if we date then stop I don't wanna fight how bout when I get back we just do what we did and move from there
m= I don't wanna do that
h= then what you wanna do
m= we should try to get to know each other better and not see other people
h= I just said that lmao
m= okay but as more than friends
h= yeah Because I know you want that d*** ;) (he was joking)
m= I'm being serious, I'm not joking
h= so we won't do anything?
m=we should try to get to know each other and not see other people. that doesn't mean we won't do stuff cos we both like it ;) (I reaaallly do)
m= but I'm really serious
h= sounds good to me I miss that *** and the way you suck ;)
m= (-___-) anything else...?
h= I miss everything. lol what do you miss
m= your face and how you're so good in bed ;) pretty much everything
h= lmao ugh I wanna see you
m= lol I wanna see you too
after that it was just dirty talk, but I tried to talk to him about serious things... he told me what I anticipated the most and I said "just you" and that was the end of our conversation.
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I think you should really think about what it is you want from him and what you'd be prepared to settle with. For example, are you okay if he just wants you for sex?
If you really want a relationship to start (or at least see if one is possible) then I would suggest you remove sex from the equation for right now. At the moment he just sounds like a horny guy willing to tell you anything to get you back into bed. See if he's still that interested in spending time with you if there's no sex for a month (as an example).0