Im back with my girlfriend who I was with before for 3 years..
We split up for a year and went our separate ways, We both slept with other people and had flings with other people.
Before we got back we decided to put everything out into the open with no secrets.
She told me about a guy who took her away for a weekend and did something really romantic with her and she slept with him and she said he was such I nice person and that.. I'm not jealous or anything like that.. the only thing that gets to me is that he treated her amazing, drove her to a different city and took her out and all that.. But I can't do anything like that for her, because I've been out of work for medical reasons and don't start till a month away.. I feel sh*t, as if I don't treat her half as well as the other guy did.. it hurts like hell because she's such an amazing girl!..
She hasn't said anything since we got back together about it, she never complains that I don't pay for anything, and she treats me to meals and stuff.. but I just completely useless, I want to be able to spoil her and show her how special she is, even more than the other guy did!.. but I can't its so horrible
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Well, then show her how special she is. Ever heard of "It's the THOUGHT that counts." If she is truly the one you want to be with, she'll appreciate who you are and how YOU treat her.
It's the little things that matter to a woman, not the larger things. This guy treated her amazing, but where is HE now? He's not in her life anymore, YOU are!
Think of free things to do - walks, reading a book to her from the library, telling her jokes or stories you have read already, learn to be a great listener and be there for her, think of ways to simply SHOW her how you feel.
Create things for her - write to her how much you missed her, tell her why you are with her again.
She sounds like a great gal, man! You're lucky! Keep her in your life, as it sounds like she lifts you up.0