here s the deal ..i know this girl from my office , we talk a lot on weekdays about music songs movies etc etc cause we stay till late in office , so we do spend time with each other ..and recently we met outside of office boundaries too ..like movie and dinner and drive around and stuff ..i really like her ..what happens usually is ..she doesn't messages me first or call me ..its me who has to initiate the talk and then she starts showing interest ..whats the deal with this ..i am really irritated ..
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I guarantee she wants to do nothing but talk to you. She is either feeling one of the following. Either she is following the rule "always let the guy initiate the conversation in the beginning so you know he wants to talk to you" or she doesn't want to end up over texting you or calling you to a point where it is a bother. If she is replying back and answering the phone then she really wants to talk to you.
Some guys like the game and others don't and I am guessing you aren't one of them. So just let her know "Hey I wouldn't mind getting a text or call from you now and then, I like hearing from you"0