So my mother is a hoarder. I have lived in an overly cluttered house for years. It has kept me from inviting friends over because I was never allowed. I was ashamed and embarrassed of the way my house looked. I was also too embarrassed to tell my friends why they couldn't come over...especially after seeing their neat and tidy houses. This became a huge problem when I started dating. A guy gets sick of taking a girl out all the time, and would rather hang out at her house. I however, can not have them over to my house. It always ends with a few dates and that's it. I think it is part of the reason I have never had a boyfriend. I am too embarrassed to tell them either, because I am afraid they won't like me or think that I am weird. I am dating this guy now, and that time is coming up. The time where he hints he wants to come over, and I just feel incredibly awkward. I don't want this time to be like all the others. Any advice on what I should do this time?
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Since you are old enough to move out of your house. This might me a viable option for you to look at. Your mom need psychological help, and you can try to get it for her to help her with her condition.
In the mean time if I was dating a girl that I liked and something was like this, I would appreciate her telling me what is going on and that you are trying to help your mom with her condition. At least you are not making excuses and that it would be not very good if he came over. That was he knows its not personal.1