My best friend came out to me in April. He dated a guy for a couple of months and then they broke up before July. In September, we both had a little too much to drink, and we hooked up. I've made out with my gay friends before, but this was nothing like that. While we were kissing, he stopped and said, "You make this so hard for me." I wasn't sure what he meant by that so I asked and he said "Being gay, you make it hard for me." After that night, he ignored me for a week until I cornered him and talked to him about it, saying things shouldn't have to be awkward with us since we're best friends. (And since he's gay).
There was one night a month after the first time where I slept in his dorm room. I could tell that he wanted it to happen again. The next day he told my friend that he was a good boy, and didn't do anything with me. He brings up the night that we made out often. And he says that he thinks about it a lot.
Last weekend at a party, we made out again.
Everyone at school thinks we're dating because we're ALWAYS together. We get along so well, and I'm starting to like him because he just acts SO straight. I don't know what to do! Should I talk to him? I don't want to ruin our friendship though.
I'm so confused, if anyone has any advice or anything, please help!
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if I were you (being a girl in that kind of situation), I would talk 2 him, don't necesarily tell him just like that, try and drop little hints that you 2 need 2 talk and. for all you know, he might have the same feelings towards you, as you have towards him. It sounds a bit typical but it really works. I went on this music course over the summer and I met this guy who admitted he was gay from the first time I saw him, I had a few feelings for him and I didn't want anyone to know so I kept it to myself. If I could go back, I would tell him how I felt, as he did. On the last night, we all stayed up until about 4 in the morning talking and we were the last ones to go to sleep. When we were the only ones awake, he told me that he didn't think he was gay and that he just needed to meet me and he would never have been gay in the first place, we're both better friends than I'v been with anyone and we both know how he feels towards me. And, if he doesn't specifically answer your hint-y questions, the answers he gives, will show you how much you mean to him and if nothing, it will make your friendship stronger.
Hope my advice is useful and good luck with it all x1