I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years. I have a daughter who is 3 and he has been in her life since she was 4 months old. He was sort of in a relationship when we met, we started dating, and then he cheated on me within the first 6 months. We broke up, then he started calling me and coming over, while he was dating one of his ex's before me. We started dating again and have been dating since then but just a couple weeks ago I found all these convo's and emails on his comp. from a girl that only lives 45 min. away.theyve never met but she told him where she works and stuff then coincidentally he has had to go to target in that town twice this week, there is one that's half that far so its obvious why he went there.they still haven't met but they are talking seriously about it and whenever she mentions him cheating on me not once does he say he won't do it.and also he hasn't said a word about her to me.i know what he's doing is wrong but I also know that he does love me and my daughter and I really honestly think she is trying to literally "steal" him from me.like trying to make him do it because at first he doesn't seem interested.i don't know what to do and I feel lost.
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Your senerio reminds me of the ol' "he wants his cake and eat it too" phrase. Meaning he wants the relationship with you, (for security perhaps?) but wants to keep his other options open as well. Three years in my opinion, is a relationship worth saving. Try talking to him about it, see what he has to say for himself. That being said, people who are happy in their relationships DO NOT cheat. The fact that he uses the internet to do so behind your back is not ok. Mistakes can be made, but this would make him a second time offender. Good luck, I hope the two of you can work it out, if not, move on, not only for you but for your little one as well.0