i've heard from so called pick up artists that girls aren't at all interested in nice guys Because it sounds "wussy". what do you ladies think and what kind of guys are you attracted to?
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Why are you listening to pick up artists? Pick up artists are guys who haven't grown out of their frat-boy days or puberty and think that the epitome of being a man is to sleep and hurt as many women as possible. If you ask any woman if she wants a man like THAT she'll say no because that's just pathetic and disgusting. So their opinion on what's "wussy" is HARDLY of any consequence.
A REAL "nice guy" doesn't scream "nice guy," he screams "awesome guy." Guys who scream "nice guy" are often guys who are not a*sholes like the pick up artists but are doing just as much wrong social relation-wise and thus driving women's interest away. They don't want to face that they have some work to do on themselves and wonder why "women hate nice guys" (ps, they don't). The same is true for women, I fully admit it's a two-way street.
I believe a REAL "nice guy" is a guy who is polite, sincere, engaging, mature and with it, well raised, respectful, has a good sense of humor but doesn't text me 24/7, doesn't rush into everything too eagerly and doesn't suffocate me. He has a life of his own and acts like an adult which means he doesn't play childish head games and NEVER makes me feel used, like just a toy or otherwise mistreated. Those types of "nice guys" are GOLD and it's too bad that they seem too be either hiding, taken or we end up too damaged by the a*sholes to notice them by the time we get around to it. A REAL nice guy makes you realize how many a*sholes you've met in the past and didn't even recognize as such.4