A girl that I knew from college asked to meet up with me a little over a month ago. She & I hadn't talked in 5 years but wanted to meet so I did. I knew that she was moving away but didn't know when. We met and we hit it off extremely well. The first date ended with her staying at my place making out & talking all night. We went out another night later that week & she came back to my place where we made out again & a kiss goodbye. She asked me the next day to hang with her & help her do some errands. When we met she greeted me with a kiss. Throughout the day we kissed off & on & had a good time hanging holding hands and kissing. So things started going really well. She was moving in 2 more weeks so I was bummed out. Well we talked almost every day & the next week I went over to her place. We had a great evening making dinner together & watching a movie. We kissed on & off and then I stayed there where we made out and cuddled. The next day she gave me several kisses and a kiss goodbye in her driveway. During this time she was going through a ton of stuff, moving, studying for her boards, and saying bye to family. So I felt good about what time I got. She found out she didn't pass her boards which crushed her. I told her I was there for her, and later that day she asked if I wanted to run an errand with her. She thanked me for being so nice and gave me a kiss when I left. We were supposed to see each other that Friday but she got behind in packing. She moved 2 weeks ago. We have talked almost everyday. Sometimes I call/text & sometimes she does. She had said something about me visiting when she left. Last week I said something about visiting her at the end of the month. She said she didn't know for sure but thought that was doable. We talked every day after that. I was worried but the next day she texted and called me. Then I got a hand written card from her saying "I'm glad you're in my life" & "feel free to visit" which was sent prior to my suggestion. Well Saturday I called & didn't get an answer. She called back on Sunday but I was about to eat out so I told her I'd call once I was done. She agreed. I called later but she didn't answer then sent a text saying she was at a bar watching a ball game and would call when it was done. She never called back. I texted her last night since she started her new job saying "hope your first day of work was a good one." I got no response. I've heard nothing today either.
What's going on? Why is she ignoring me all of a sudden? What throws me the most is that if she wanted to ignore me, why would she call Sunday? She called, I just happen to be busy but I did answer. So she was reaching out to me, then she promised to call & didn't WTF? She knows I'm a nice guy & I think she's a nice honest girl too. So why would a girl who had a romance with a guy, then talked to him everyday once she moved, tell him he should visit, talk to him all week including a card, start ignoring him 2 days later? Review & advise
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She went out with you even though she knew she was leaving. She entered the relationship with you too fast, and that's a bit weird for a serious relationship. I think she intended for it to last while she was there.(I know for a fact I won't lead a long distance relationship because it's just too bothersome). Maybe she's bored of you, because you seem a little bit clingy. Well if it were for me, I wouldn't want to start a serious relationship if I knew I was leaving. It would only be a fling. Oh and, it seems like she's losing her interest in you, because if it's already long distance and she is not responding you, well , there's something weird.0
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