Ive been seeing this guy for like 7 months, we're basically boyfriend and girlfriend.
So we were flicking through each others phones and I saw messages from him to other girls saying 'hey babe' and 'when am I gonna see you' and 'when are you gonna make time for me'
when I confronted him he said that they were just girls that like him so he uses them to buy him stuff.
is this right/normal?
do I have a right to be angry/hurt?
should I leave him?
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To answer your three questions.
1. No its not normal.
2. Yes and yes.
3. Ummm talk to him first and find where his head is at .
innocent flirting is still cheating regardless, because it will eventually lead to cheating. Flirting itself is already cheating in my opinion. I had a girlfriend at a time who didn't know how to stop herself from flirting with other people. Two weeks into the relationship, she was already flirting with my best friend and slept with him too. So if I were you, I would talk to him and tell him to stop, I don't speak to my female friends like that and any normal guy doesn't unless he doesn't want things to remain platonic.0