My boyfriend has a thing for cars and when he gets a new one, he dispersers for 2 or 3 weeks. He still texts me but he gets so excited about it he goes on and on about what he's fixing, how he did it, what he will fix after and to be frank I'm tired of car talk. I get that when guys get a new toy they like to play with it! Guys help me out a little does this die down after a while or will it be this way always?
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Guys have the same chemical release in their brains when they fall in love, have sex, and go fast in cars. Try to look at it as a good thing. Instead of getting bored with you he will get bored with the toys and fall back into you.
Let him be a guy. He will always be that way. Take the time he spends playing as time for you to do your own thing for a bit, like a little vacation in a way. He will find his way back as long as you don't become needy and complain.
If you could choose, wouldn't you rather have your guy be into toys than other chicks? He needs let out of his 'cage' at times. Be grateful his escape is cars rather than strip clubs.2
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