I literally feel sick to my stomach. I feel as if I did the wrong thing, and in making myself vulnerable I have destroyed every fabric of happiness ever. Even though I know it's not true, that's how it FEELS. In a nutshell: me and this guy have been friends for a while. I was with him and some friends, but I left because I was getting the blues about being around him knowing that I had feelings for him but he would never reciprocate. He texted me what was wrong, but I kept telling him I'm fine, I can't tell you, but don't worry, I'm fine. Finally he said am I not taking the right steps to you telling me what's wrong? I didn't know what he meant, so I asked him. He said, never mind, I guess we both have things we can't tell each other. He said give me a hint first and I'll tell you. Then I said, no, you first! He told me that he was having commitment issues but he's getting better and better as he gets older. I said, fine, damn it (lol)! Because I REALLY didn't want to tell him, and I finally told him how I felt--all of these pent of feelings that I've been holding FOREVER. As soon as I sent it, like directly after, he sent me a message saying 'have a good night'. Now I'm mindf***ed and I feel terrible...he probably won't respond for a while. Consolation, anyone? I added that I wasn't expecting him to be my boyfriend, because in all honesty, I'm not sure I'm ready for that. I just wanted him to know how I felt.
I FINALLY told him my feelings...NOW, I feel like...
What Guys Said 1
it's better to be honest with him.. even if you are rejected, it's better than having those feelings pent up. If he doesn't like you back, then he doesn't deserve you because he doesn't appreciate you for who you are. Find somebody who does1
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