when you find out a girl you have gone out with has a kid does it turn you away? are there men out there that can marry a single mom and maybe start his own family with her? is a single mom just for dating or can a man commint long term?
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yep , just so happened I did , she had a 1 year old daughter at the time. her ex husband came home from work literally kicked her out of the house . after a yr. of trying to reconcile she finally
filed for divorce.
she met me some months latter after leaving the state she was in to a friend of hers where we were in another. mutual friend sort of paired us up(played cupid) it must have worked we've been married now 40 yrs.
of course I'm one of those shy quiet nice guys that got over looked a lot in high school lol
we've had 2 daughters of our own , between my step daughter and my natural daughters I have
5 grandkids 4 boys and 1 girl (she's the youngest)
so ya it can and does happen.
i'm not saying this is a hard and fast rule of thumb , but generaly the type guys that do are guys like me who as said who were over looked in high school generally those who were called sweet and nice guys (just friends) but not boyfriend material.
take what I said with a grain of salt . not everyone shares or likes the idea.
especially in the age bracket you have?(18-24) seeing as your so close to (still) or maybe just grad. from high school you can probably remember several such guys(the nice guy)
seeing you have a child (unless your husband died or was killed recently in battle) you were probably married to the type guy that wasn't nice to you . he left you or you wised up and left him.
personally I think my personal story should have and did answer all your questions.
admittedly I through in some extra thought but only as a suggestiion as to the type of guy you may want to look for for that long term commitment your wanting.if you do find such as guy be good to him and he'll return that multiplied back.0