This is extremely embarassing but I need some help on this one. I am almost a 23 year old man and I have not dated, kissed , or had sex with a female in my life. I have had plenty of abnormal situations that had greatly influenced this but the facts still remian true. This sounds creepy and weird even to me so how can a woman my age wrap her head around this? To add insult to injury, many girls have found me to be attractive over the years but I had issues get in the way. What do I do if I start to date. Do I not let her know what my history is without lying about it or do I speak of the odd and tragic things that have happened to me and explian that they are the reasons? I know that this is extremely sad but I honestly could use the help and I would appreciate your advice.
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1st of all stay away from those kind of things unless she asks (which should be after the inial get to know you phase. then if she asks say like 6 weeks to 3 months into relationship alittle at a time
not the whole truck load.
you strike me by your post to be what many girls might call a sweet nice guy but not boyfriend material fore them so you probably get shunted off to their friend zone most likely. I've had girls ask me at times (1960's and early 70's) why a sweet nice guy like me has no girlfriend ? ya right huh. I've always wanted to say "why are you wanting to apply for the position?" but generally the girls that ask rthat question already had boyfriends so I didn't.
i generally said "thats the $64,000 question if you ever find out let me know because I don't"
lame I know.but yet over the years I've learned some things and omly wished I knew them at your age.
what would you say if I told you you probably had at least 1/2 doz girls fantasizing about you right now. these same girls would make wonderfukl girlfriends too .
"WTF" is most likely what your thinking right now "right"!
NO this is the truth these girls have been trying to get your attention by flirting but what they were doing you may not reconized it as such. "WHAT GIRLS FLIRTING WITH ME " your thinking "RIGHT" LOL well in this case I'm right .
there are an abondance of girls out there many of them shy (some shyier than others) these girls flirt differently than more confident girls do so sometimes when they flirt as said many guys
don't reconize it.
do a google search on shy girls body language and signals /signs and read as many as you can friom each category (body language and body signals/signs).
you may be surprised after reading to the number of girls that likes you and would love to be with you but just to shy to approach you.
ok, at present you have no girlfriend and no prospect of one from what you've got written right. so what do or would you have to lose by reading some of this material . there is a 95% possabilty
you could get a girlfriend within days if not sooner .
example : ever had any girl talking with you maybe even looking at you while twirling a strand of hair around her finger? well bud you were being flirted with or she found you interesting.
example : ever saw a girl looking at you but almost emidately she turns her head then looks down she may even blush some . you were flirted with and she likes you and absolutely wouldn't say no 90% of the time if you approached her and ask her out.
these are only two such examples of body language shy girls do as ways of flirting their are many more some more secretive done that you have to know what their doing to decipher it through body language.
after you read a lot of this info about girls body language you'll start seeing patterns and can actually sit back an watch some dude who thinks he's so cool and try to get the girl . you'll
be know if he does or not before him lol.0