Here's my problem, I've been sort of "dating" this guy for about 2 months now, and last night I went to a party and he was there, and he acted like he didn't see me, although I know that he did, we made a lot of eye contact (not in a flirty way) and when he saw me looking at him he kept dancing and flirting with girls on purpose in front of me, so after the party was over I sent him a text saying : "Oh so now you won't even come over and say hi :P" and he answered : "Oh I didn't see you, you should've come over" (but it wasn't well written because he was drunk I guess), and then I was like "Yeah right, I was right next to you, and you completley ignored me, anyways I'm not going to disturb you any longer, but I'm kind of dissapointed" and now he won't even talk to me, so I want to send him a text to kind of "make up" but I don't know what to say, because if I send a text like nothing happened he's going to be like : Okaaaay she's weird, and if I send him a text apologizing, it's going to make me seem desperate, so help please :)
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I don't understand why you or anyone else in such situation would value a person who cares so adversely about you. When he was making you jealous by ignoring you, and being a total bitch to you, did he care about your feelings? Was he considerate about how you would feel receiving such an inconsiderate text message like that?
Even if he likes/wants you, he does so only for the sake of his own selfish gain and nothing else. And I hate it when people are door mats to another person for the sake of love. There are guys and girls who would treat you way better than this douche bag, so collect the little self respect you have left for yourself and don't fall low for people like him. You are the last person who would have to apologize to him for anything in this scenario, so don't.
You are not going anywhere with this guy, he will most likely dump you one fine morning if your probably even try; because he thinks he is too good for you, and you are the one who has to follow him, text him, and apologize.1