After she was over at my house with a few friends I took her home and she asked me what I was doin for the weekend. I told her what I thought I was doing and said I would hit her up this weekend.
Then she said "yea or if you want to hang out some time this week text me"
I kinda took that as a green light, and since its summer and neither of us really have a lot going on I didn't think it would be too hard.
2 days later I hit her up and we made plans but they fell through. But that was fine so I asked her if she wanted to hang out the next day and she said yea. Then that day comes and she suddenly has a going away party for her aunt that is in town so we can't hang out again.
That was today, we made plans for tomorrow now, I figure that's her last chance, but I kinda get the feeling that her excuses are bs. should I even bother?
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Yes, you should bother. She may have been just messing with you or trying to make you chase her harder, but maybe the poor girl just had bad circumstances clash together. Maybe her excuses ARE bullsh*t, but she also had real ones she couldn't tell you about.. Do you like her so little that you're willing to presume this without being certain? If so, do go on ahead.
I say go on that date and don't be bitter about broken plans. Relax and, most importantly, see what she really wants from you.
Even though she may accept this date, it could be that she was afraid she gave you the "green light" (which she did). Maybe she didn't plan on leading you on, but failed and didn't know how to make it right. Just a note to keep an eye out for her level of interest in you on the date.0