I liked this girl but she stop talking to me. I lost my virginity to her and even if she didn't want to be in a relationship(assuming) I wouldn't of cared if we turned into friends with benefits or just friends.
Like a week after we had sex she completely stop talking to me, I didn't know why. Even though I liked her, I didn't care if we just left off as friends so I sent her a text to see if she wanted to go swimming. She didn't reply.
The next day I find out she was f***ing one my friends(Hes a 'Player', I'm a 'Niceguy'). I know we werent dating or anything, but it really bothered me that out of all people it had to be one my friends that I hang out with.
After I found that out, I stop sending her text and she never sent me any after that so I tried my hardest to let it go. When I'm hanging out with my friends she would constantly be texting or calling my "player friend" and he would never answer or reply. He got what he wanted and he always has other girls coming after him. I don't get how he does it, he's not even that good looking but girls love him.
Month later now she sends me a text to see if I want to go swimming.. Now she talks to me? Should I even reply? What would you all do?
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If you do you are the biggest fool. Ignore her & ignore her for good! Your her fall back boy. Even if she did like you, which I doubt, she needs to learn she can't treat people like sh*t.
Trust me on this, in a few weeks you'll feel good about yourself & at the same time start building confidence by not giving in to DICKHEADS just because you find her attractive.
She ignored you over some player. That should be enough for you to realize what type of girl she is.2