me and my friend are really close I used to like her and I'm doing the best I can to move on from her but anyway a few weeks ago she went away and met this guy and started dating him after knowing the dude for like 3 days and they have been dating ever sense then I said to her are we still hanging out and going to the movies then she said I don't know because my boyfriend is staying with me for a 11 to 13 days and I was mad when she told me that because we had plans and our plans were just tossed aside for her boyfriend who she just met I said to her well what about our plans and she said well he can come too and I said no because we plans to hang out just you and me and I don't want to sit around watching you guys kiss and do what ever right in front of me because you know I used to like you and all she said was I see then I said I don't wanna be a third wheel then she didn't talk to me for the rest of the night and this all happened last Friday she hasn't tex or called or talked to me sense Friday and I'm just wondering why do girls always put there boyfriends before there friends I've known her for 3 year sand she just met him this month he hasn't even known her for a month and she just blew me off some of my other friends who are girls as well every time I asked to hang out there always busy with there boyfriends so can you tell me why girls or guys why do some or most girls do this?
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Basically, she is forced to choose her boyfriend over you for a couple of reasons - one, no boyfriend will accept being second guy in a girl's life unless it is possibly to her father; two, she doesn't want to make you think that you're more important than her boyfriend because you have had feelings for her. She doesn't want to get your hopes up in that way if she doesn't like you in that way.0
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