well I am extremely nervous and the only reason is because I am a plus size girl and I'm scared that he will see me and think I am fat. He has seen pictures but I'm just scared. am I worrying too much about this or what do you guys think?
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Were your pictures accurate representations of the way you look? If so, then I'm sure he finds your body type attractive or he wouldn't have agreed to have dinner with you. There are many men who find plus size women very attractive, and some even prefer them to the waifer-thin girls.
If you feel nervous, there are some simple things you can do to help boost your self-esteem and get you ready for the big day. Wear a new outfit that you find slimming or get your nails and hair done. Accentuate your most attractive features - if you have lovely eyes, for example, draw attention to them with a flattering shade of eyeshadow.
Displaying confidence is definitely attractive, no matter your size. If you let on that you are unsatisfied with the way you look, then others may hone into the aspects of yourself that you aren't quite happy with. If you go into the date feeling good about yourself, then it will be his problem if he finds fault with you.
A guy who judges you based on the way you look and not by the quality of your character does not deserve your time and is unworthy of a second thought. Just because you don't meet certain measurements doesn't mean you are not beautiful or worthy of respect and love.
Good luck girl! :)0