So here's the basics: my boyfriend of 5 months just broke up with me 3 weeks ago and now there is three guys that like me.
Should I go out with:
1. S: the nice guy that always wants to make me smile but I also wouldn't get to see very often. He constantly pops up at places I am at and asks me to go to the movies.
2. D: the ex. I dumped him a few months ago ( I have no clue why! ) and he recently got dumped by his girl (for cheeting) who d says he used as a rebound from me. Now...he wants me to go with him, wants my dirty pics, asks me out but I don't know if I can trust him. He is in my classes and goes to my school.
3. J: The other ex. we never actually got to kiss because of external issues that made us break up (nothing to do with "us"). I really do still like him and he sometimes ignores me though (txtwise). I would probably get to see him the most out of these 3 because he lives nearby but I am afraid he is going to be pushy.
I really don't know what to do! I like all of them.
So 2 questions:
a: who would you choose (or advise me to choose if you are a guy)
b: do you think I am a hoe? I flirt with all of them. :/
Most Helpful Girl
a) as long as those "external influences" are resolved, I would pick 3.
if not, I'd pick 1.
I would never pick 2 even if my life depended on it. He cheated on that girl -- whatever the circumstances, that never excuses cheating. If he was "using" her to get over you, he could have always broken up with her first. Once a cheater, almost always a cheater -- I would never trust him.
b) you're single -- you're allowed to flirt
as long as you're not sleeping with all 3 of them, then you're not a hoe0