I find most of my prospects unattractive -- how much time do I need to spend going out with people I do not find attractive? I got so sick of doing this in real life that I stopped dating completely.
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Never. What is the point of going on a date with someone you would never want to get naked with, to put it bluntly?
I get tired of the PC chant that beauty is on the inside and we should focus only on that. It is simply not reality. Without that spark that comes from attraction, you really cannot make anything else happen. Heading into a relationship is where the inner beauty part comes into play. If we don't care for someone's personality or beliefs, we may think they are attractive but won't be able to see them as boyfriend or girlfriend material.
So, hang in there, and wait to meet someone you have a spark with versus dating those you don't.0