I have noticed that in most relationships the guy asked out the girl. Why is that? Do girls ever ask out guys?
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Girls seldomly ask guys out because... they don't have too.
Simply put, asking anyone out is challenging for the ego because you may be rejected. Well, there's also that since social convention make it so that it is expected that the guy ask out the lady, it become harder for the lady to ask out: It bring an extra weird/awkward factor to the deal for them.
And also, there is also the courtship ritual and how the power is divided in the process. The Lady get the power to say yes or no to the sex, while the guy usually get the power to say yes or love (and relationship).
... and since (in most relationship between sexually active adults) love can only happen AFTER sex, the lady have to play her card first and hope that the guy didn't only wanted sex (unless she's only after a sexual trip, but that's fairly uncommon). Because she have no certain way to know if you will stay after the morning or if you will leave for ever without giving anything back. And trust me, for what I've seen of my female friends, it really, really hurt them when the guy just wanted sex when they hoped for more.
So to reduce the risk, they usually are cautious and go through the whole "dating process" to do their best to figure out what the guy have in his mind. Is he serious? Does he want a relationship or only sex? It's a major trust issues for them, because most guys who only wants sex will not be honnest about it (to not be refused).
By making the guy take risks (at least for his ego), they can test how much he's interested (human beeing don't take risks for unimportant stuff usually).
After saying so, almost all girls at some point of their life will ask a guy out. Some will do often, other only ounce. But it happens. Just don't count on it. Because self-confidence is the most attractive traits for a guy, so when a guy is beeing asked out by a lady, it's usually because he's already good and comfortable at asking girls out.1