OK let's start from the top. Me and this guy have gotten serious and he's told me several times how much he loves me and how much I mean to him and I the same. Well about four days ago... for some dumb reason I mention to him that I am bi and normally this is a turn on to guys but some how I feel that I freaked him out. After I texted this... he got really quiet. Well I sent him a text back saying Why so quiet? He text back Just thinking? Then like 5 minutes later he text me... "So you think I want to sleep with other girls?" I text him no that I wasn't saying that. Well after this he got really quiet extremely quiet and no more texts and I haven't heard from him in 4 days. Just to let you know that he visiting people and has a crappy phone so not much of signal. I keep hoping that it is because of his phone but something in my gut is telling me that I won't hear from him again. I haven't really text him much since except for maybe good morning I miss you. Just to let him know that I am thinking of him. Other than that I have made sure that I haven't blown up his phone. Trust me that is a plus with me. I'm learning and I do not do that to him. Normally I text him and if he texts me I carry on conversation with him . If he doesn't text me back I don't text him anymore on that day. I hoping that it is just because he doesn't have a signal... but I have a feeling I won't hear from him anymore. Please I need a guys opinion because I'm afraid that I am losing the one guy that I care so much about over something dumb and something that was in my past and that I wouldn't do anymore. Help. I'm freaking out and I don't want to suffocate him with texts and phone calls.
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Being so serious, it was odd that he would be so freaked by your sexuality. It's not a big deal and doesn't reflect on your feelings toward him.. So, who knows?
Maybe you should wait a week without contacting him at all. Act like it's nothing to you.
Then after a week has passed, send a gentle text asking if he's upset with you or something like that. If he replies, talk it out. Explain that your sexuality has absolutely NOTHING to do with your love for him. Ask him if he's freaked out, let him share his feelings.
I have communication problems with.. well, EVERY SINGLE GUY I've ever liked. I know it's rough, brah..0