So there was this girl I fell in love with 2 years ago and she dumped me for some other guy then she started texting me again. but I was a bit suspicious why because she was still with her boyfriend and I assumed she was not dating him anymore so I got exited again and then she started texting me a lot and met up then all of a sudden she stopped texting me and I got heartbroken again and now she is dating a new guy what the hell is she doing? why is she being cruel and just rubbing my face in it. Its not fair I did nothing to her. I really did care about her. =(
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She is being cruel because it's her nature to be this way. Like many girls she wanted attention, and she got what she "needed" from you and moved on again. Girls always have someone at bay to get with, to use for attention, and to play with when allowed to. As long as you keep answering her, she will use you the way she wants on her terms.
Since she KNOWS how you feel and that you are a "good guy", she has a feeling that you are waiting for her and you always will be. Nice guys finish last, and she is giving you the "hanging on a string" treatment. The thing about it is, you are letting this happen by communicating with her.
Move on and date other girls. STOP all communication with her even if she contacts you. Remember this experience. She left you for someone else, that tells you everything you need to know. This happens to guys all the time. She is playing you, and secretly she is laughing her ass off. Sure you can wait for her, you can spend years or decades putting your life on hold for something that's not guaranteed.1