I know for a fact that a girl I work with likes me, and she just asked me if I want to hang out on Friday night! I am not attracted to her.

She just asked me in a text if I want to hang out Friday night. The problem is that I am not attracted to her at all like she is attracted to me. I don't see us being anything more than friends. But she just lost her house to hurricane Irene. If say I'm not attracted to her it would be crushing. I don't want to lie to her either though. What should I do? I have always been straight up with people but in a nice way. Any advice?


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What Girls Said 1

  • Just say out whatever you are thinking. No point giving her hopes and crash it someday..


What Guys Said 1

  • As hard as it may be if your not attracted to her, reject her proposed date or go on the date but don't hit on her.