I'm sure this question has been asked before in one way or another. I think it's common knowledge that people believe a number of girls expect guys to chase them. In my experience and from what I've seen or heard, some girls expect you to call them and/or message them again and again, even though sometimes nothing significant has happened. Personally if a girl flirts with me, and then another guy, I'll assume she is just after some attention and I won't take her seriously. Or I'll assume that's how she is and won't take much notice of her again in a romantic way. If a girl can't respond to my calls or messages I won't bother trying again. If I know her reasonably well, I'll try 1 or 2 more times. Part of the reason I'm like this is because all I know about the girl is what she looks like, and that we can communicate to each other. These two points don't mean that much to me because I learnt a while ago that good looks doesn't equal good person, and I can communicate with a number of people, even though I'm not looking for a relationship with all them. Therefore I need more than just looks and conversation to make an effort.
Getting back to the question I want to split it in to 2 parts.
1) Why should a guy chase if he doesn't know you that well?
2) How is a guy supposed to know you want to be chased? Because guys aren't mind readers.
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1. Guys shouldn't do it because they feel they should but because they view we as a worthy prize. Also if he doesn't know me well why would I bother replying? So it's not "chasing" but actually more becasue he hasn't proved his worth to me.
2. You wouldn't know would you? That's the thing. If she plays games with you you can usually tell she's the sort. Appears interested one minute and disinterested the next, back and forth.0