I am 16 years old. A junior in high school, and I am an a honor student but my mom won't let me date. And when I ask her she says I'm irresponsible. I cook I clean and I take care of the dogs and the cats cause she works all the time. but yet I'm still irresponsible. She uses the dumbest excuses. for example I didn't do the dishes the other night when she told me to cause I was practicing for chorus and I got really tired so I forgot. the next day she starts freaking out like the world is going to end. And says that shows me your irresponsible. What about everything else I do! I'm getting real annoyed with this. A guy I have liked for the longest time asked me out on Friday and I think I am just going to sneak because she has no reason not to trust me. Am I wrong for this?
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I think she is over protecting you. It has nothing to do with how responsible you are. Are you wrong for sneaking out? Your mother will think so. You need to be willing to accept the consequences of your actions. If you are ready to face the consequences and feel like you deserve to go then you have to make that decision for yourself. Just be careful, because there is a reason your mom is worried about you.2