I'm just wondering how often I should call my long distance love. I spend my time waiting for him to call. He says that he wants me to call, but he seems so busy with 2 kids, a full time job, a house, working out, a new roommate that he hates. I just don't want to pester him. He calls me about every couple of days and we talk for about an hour or two.
- Call or text once a day.Vote A
- Every few days or every other day. I don't want to be pushy.Vote B
- Once a week is enough for me to call or make contact.Vote C
- Other - Please answer in comments what the other is if you answer other.Vote D
Most Helpful Girl
His life sounds stressful, so even just a quick call to make sure he's not going crazy will probably brighten his day. I would say calling him everything other day for an in-depth conversation is good. You could also call him for a moment or text him a short message just to let him know you are thinking about him every day if you like, I don't think any part of that seems like it would be annoying. Men do appreciate the little things that show you care, and although he is busy, you should be the best part of his day :D I hope that helps.2