I went on a date with this guy,he bought me flowers,it was really sweet and he sent me a messaging telling me I'm hot lol and we went to a movie and he put his arm around me,but we didn't kiss the whole night.At the end of the night he dropped me off at home and I ended up saying is it bad that I wanna kiss you and he said no and started giggling and I asked what he was laughing at and he's like nothing and I said no what and he said no nothing...So I was like okay well thank you for the date..and then I left.And about 10 min after he said I miss u.Lol now I'm wondering if he meant to send that to someone else or actually meant to send it to me and I feel like an idiot now,did he realize he didn't wanna kiss me or something or maybe he just does it differently and doesn't kiss on the first date..I'm so confused lol.And he had also asked me to come along to an event with friends but I didn't really answer it Because I thought it was a bit soon to be hanging out with his friends lol...
What do you think?Do guys not kiss on the first date sometimes?
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I personally do not kiss on the first date;however, I don't just let her walk away. It might be kind of odd but I get nothing but good responses from girls that I date for the first time.
So were at her door or standing outside of the car. Were having that end of the date conversation and as we say our goodbyes I look deeply into her eyes and I read her body language. If all signs point to a no then I happily respect her decision and give her a hug and/or a kiss on the cheek. If all signs point to a yes then this is where it gets tricky. I look deeply into her eyes as we both start to lean in for the kiss and keep that eye contact until she closes hers. Once she does, I divert my head to the right. When this is done she will freeze in confusion but be ready to catch her because she might loose her balance. So your head should be to the right of hers. You stop suddenly giving her a chance to realize what happened then you whisper into her ear," Goodnight *her name*". Then you play it smooth. Turn your head and give her a kiss on the cheek. Then you just walk away.
What this does is leaves them with that tension and makes them want you more. It also shows that you care about them enough to save the physical part of the relationship for later. And it shows that you respect them and aren't just using them for their bodies. But I do it 1) because it's fun and they never expect it to happen like that and 2) its such a smooth way to end a date.0